i don't know what do do.
By cardozay on Fri, 12-16-11, 10:16
Thank you mrgsmama I have been away from him and I've been miserable! So I know I can't leave him. He tells me I need to thrust him and forget about the past its hard to forget when you've been stepped on so many times he says he doesn't talk to any of his exes or girls he has messed around with. My problem is believing is so hard!!!!!!
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By Soft on Sat, 12-17-11, 10:09
cardozay: When I first read your post, I felt I could have been reading about a 14 and 16 year old in a dramatic high school relationship. I hope one day, with him or someone else, you are able to experience a loving, adult, drama-free partnership, for the sake of your two kids, if not for you. You have no reason to trust your boyfriend, so don't. Get a full battery of STD tests, and insist he does the same. If he refuses, then you have one huge clue as to how he feels about you, your safety and peace of mind. If you choose to have sex with him, use protection every single time. He is telling you to trust him? He is telling you to forget about the past? He should not be telling you anything, let alone what to do or feel. Trust is earned through tons and tons of trusting actions. Tons. Trust isn't earned because of an affair and then simply telling the person who was betrayed, "trust me". He can't be serious.
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By mrgsmama on Sat, 12-17-11, 16:23
I agree....STD's are very real. Definately protect yourself and get tested!
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Stay strong girl. It will NEVER stop. Unfortionately, life will be miserable until you are away from him. He will say he's sorry, and it will happen again. It is a HABIT, and some men just don't care enough to break it. They only think of what makes them happy. I have seen this with way to many men. They just don't CARE!! When they seem like they do, it is just an ACT. Cuz if they really did, they wouldn't do it! I would walk away if I ever saw anything like that on my boyfriend's phone. He was dating and talking to other people the first few months of our relationship. I STILL cry over it when i see those women's pictures. It hurts, and I don't want to keep hurting like that. He knows if it ever happens again, I will walk away for good. I know I don't deserve that hurt. You don't either!!! Ask yourself if you would feel relieved or happier to not feel that hurt....if so, than walk away. Stay strong!