Warning bad language is used in this post I am sorry if I offend anyone I am just so upset!!
So for many of you that know my story you know ab out the infidelity and all the pain I have been in.... well new turn of events!!!
Yesterday I was told by a guy who goes to school with my husband that he had asked for the whores new number since she is back in town and that he said "she is the best pussy he has ever had" Needless to say I was in TEARS I was shaking so hard I couldn't breath I was sick. I threw up I could not eat I was SO hurt all over again. I asked for her new number and he gave it to me. I strategically went through our phone records for the last 3 months.... her number never showed up just mine and our best friend and his boss at work... oh and my dads number... THATS IT so if he did get it he was not contacting her.
I confronted him about it... did not yell or lose my temper just asked, told him what I was told and that if that is true why me why again?? He said it was not true at all and wanted to know who told me. I refused to give up that information. I called our best friend, he is like a big brother to me. I was in tears asked him did he think Pablo was doing this to me again? He said "no... I told him she had called me and he made it clear he hates her and does not give a sh*t about her"
Meanwhile this informant... started messaging me that he would "take care of me" if my husband couldn't (in the bedroom) and that he would do naughty things to me FUCKING GROSS!!!!!!!! (excuse my language but I am mad!!!) This guy told me these lies because he knew I was vulnerable he knew about the affair.... He thought if he told me my husband was still being an idiot that I would in turn cheat back?!?!?! HELL NO!!!! Not only that but if I was ever going to be STUPID I would make it with someone worth it he is SO NOT WORTH RUINING MY FAMILY!!! I told him I am not like that and I love my family. How can someone purposely put someone through so much pain just to try to get in their pants?!? I am an educated respectable person not some piece of trash willing to spread my legs!!! I HAVE FUCKING CHILDREN!!!!
BTW I found out that the number he gave me is not even hers..... WOW!! This guys is obviously desperate and sad!
My head is killing me trying to wrap my head around the whole situation. I told my husband I am not talking to anyone out here accept our best friend... I feel like there is not GOOD in people anymore. Does this guy have ANY idea that he put my children's lives at risk... if my husband cheats again we are moving with my parents multiple states away. They would not be in their home with both parents with everything they have now... It makes me feel like losing it!
Needless to say, God put temptation (this guy was not really temptation but normally I am a revenge person) in my path and I resisted without thinking twice. I realize now how much this last year had made me grow up as a person as a wife and as a mom.
Things are still good between my husband and I we love each other and are still working to move in a positive direction together. Even after all this drama we are still doing better than before. PHEW!