A site that gave me insight on love

By RobDC on Fri, 02-24-12, 22:48

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Infidelity

I went looking today for some information about marriage and love. I found this link and a few others but this one looked at the relationship in a more scientific way that allowed me to wrap my brain around some of the crazy I have been experiencing since I found out about my husbands infidelity x 4. I don't want to say too much about what I read because it could pollute your interpretation of the information presented. I also only read two sections, Is it true love, and your love story.

http://www.psychologicalselfhelp.org/Chapter10/

I have always believed that my love for my husband was not like other's. Everyone was so detached and just waiting for a divorce to start over. Some even called their husbands their future ex-husband. If you are like me and have struggled with understanding this betrayal when there was so much love and support for the cheating spouse. Maybe this would help you with the feeling that you have gone through the looking glass too.

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By CK on Tue, 02-28-12, 10:22

Thanks for sharing-don't you just love that brainy scientists can help us interpret our innermost feelings?!

Sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast-Alice in Wonderland

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By RobDC on Wed, 02-29-12, 09:35

I thought that the bit on how the two sayings-absences makes the heart grow fonder and out of site out of mind could both be correct. I discovered that for me absences makes the heart grow fonder because I think of my husband. He does not when he is away from me. I am not on his mind. That is why this plagues me and he can continue as usual. I think that I could change how I think but I am afraid. I believe that my love for him is a rare and precious thing. I never felt this way about any other man in my life. I don't want to throw it away without making sure first that it is my only option. Just knowing I could change my mind gives me strength.

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